Love Like An Ocean

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Happy Birthday Lonnie/Grandpa

We have a lot of August birthdays in our family. Today is my Father-in-Law's birthday. Once again, Emma helped answer some questions about her Grandpa.

1. How old is Grandpa?
Is he 34?

2. What is Grandpa's favorite food?
carrots

3. What is Grandpa's favorite color?
blue

4. What kind of birthday party should Grandpa have?
How about an American party?
What's an American party?
There's lots of music to dance with and stuff to play.

5. What does Grandpa like to do?
play with us

6. What does Grandpa want for his birthday?
a picture

7. If you could give Grandpa anything for his birthday, what would it be?
a puzzle

Hope you have a great birthday Lonnie!
Love,
Amy

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Joy Like A Fountain


I think that Caitlin, my two year old, has joy like a fountain. Don't get me wrong, she can be grumpy and she can pitch a pretty good fit (usually when I am on the phone)--but, the simplest things seem to bring her joy. When she finds a toy that she hasn't seen in a while, when I give her something to eat that she knows she will like, when she gets to wear her new crocs, or yes, when she gets her pacifier, she actually flat out giggles. It is like the joy just bubbles out--like a fountain.

There are days like today when I am worried or sad that her giggles serve as a reminder for me. They remind me that I also have joy like a fountain because "In Him our hearts rejoice, for we trust in his Holy Name."--Psalm 34:21

Monday, August 27, 2007

Happy Birthday Mom/Mimi

Today is my Mom's birthday. Emma and Caitlin (mostly Emma) helped me answer some questions about their Mimi.

1. How old is Mimi?
I don't know--4 yrs. old

2. What is Mimi's favorite food?
grapes

3. What is Mimi's favorite color?
green

4. What does Mimi like to do?
She likes to clean up, wash her hands

5. What kind of birthday party should Mimi have?
A cat party-how about a Garfield one?

6. What does Mimi want for her Birthday?
Probably some new shoes-Sketchers

7. If you could give Mimi anything for her birthday, what would it be?
If Papa wanted anything it would be a golf-set. I would get Mimi a new cell phone.

Happy Birthday Mom.
Love,
Amy

Friday, August 24, 2007

The First Day of School

Today was Emma's first day of Pre-K. She has been home with me for four years, so I knew it would be hard. I've been praying about this day for six months and I know the Lord was with us. This is an entry I made in a journal that I keep for Emma:

Dear Emma,

Today was your first day of preschool. I can't believe that you are old enough to be in school everyday.

Here is what happened:

Last night, long after you were asleep, your Daddy and I went into your room and prayed for you. I prayed for your safety. I prayed that you would make new friends. I prayed that you would remember that "the Lord is your helper" (Hebrews 13:6) and I prayed that you would have a "spirit of power, love, and self-control" (2 Timothy 1:7).

When I woke you up, you were very excited. Yesterday, you and I made a schedule for you to follow this morning. We put it up on the refrigerator and you checked it first thing. You followed it perfectly--eat breakfast, brush teeth, wash face/hands, get dressed, brush hair, pack backpack and put on shoes.

We started a new tradition this morning. I bought a special blue plate (blue is your favorite color right now). Every time someone has a birthday or a special day, they will eat off of the special plate. You ate your breakfast from it (turkey bacon, eggs and chocolate milk-at your request). The rest of us ate off of regular (OK-paper) plates. I think you were proud.

You put on your new outfit that you had picked outfit earlier in the week and said "Oh yeah." You love that outfit.

After plenty of pictures, we were on our way. In the car, your Daddy asked if you had butterflies in your tummy. You said "I have frogs in my tummy." I knew what you meant because I did too.

When we arrived you started getting a little bit nervous. You were glued to my leg and when we were taking you outside to get settled, your eyes started filling with tears. I took you aside, knelt beside you, put my hands on your arms, looked you in the eyes and said "You're going to be all right." (I was doing everything I could just to hold myself together!) Emma, you were so brave-not one single tear fell from you eyes. I took you outside-you settled on a bouncing horse-I kissed you goodbye-and you were fine.

I, of course, was not--As soon as I hit the door, the tears came and kept coming. I was telling Grandma about it this evening and she said "I know. Sometimes it's hard to be a Mom isn't it?" It is.

I think it was hard on Daddy too. We had really tried to make this day special for you and he said "I just wish we could make her feel this special every day." He loves you so much.

Caitlin asked "Where's Emma?" all morning. As Mimi says, she has been "your shadow and your echo." This is going to be different for her too.

Sweetheart, I just want you to know how proud I am of you. You handled it beautifully. I love you to the moon and back, to the stars and back, all around the world and back and to infinity and beyond! Now I'll start praying for Monday!

Love,
Mommy


Wednesday, August 22, 2007

The Haircut

After four years and two months, I finally decided that it was time for Emma to get a haircut. After all, her hair was down to her waist and brushing it out after bath time was a nightmare--to say the least. With Pre-K starting, I could imagine her hair tangled in playground equipment or decorated with globs of peanut butter.

So, we loaded up on Sunday afternoon and made a family event out of it.

This is how it went:
She was NOT HAPPY--but we survived. She got a lollipop and her hair looks much healthier.

About ten minutes later, as we were driving to a family birthday party, I felt it coming--a wave of emotion that I couldn't hold back--the tears came. Things are changing. My baby is growing up. She is starting Pre-K. Her baby hair is gone. Crazy, huh?

I guess there's two things for me to remember:
1.) Enjoy my kids everyday
2.) There is one thing that never changes: "Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord, is the Rock eternal." Isaiah 26:4